These two questions are submitted to me at least twenty times per week! I’ve given the same answers in maybe one hundred ways and still people don’t get it!

Let me clarify a few things before I smack a few people in the head with my words.

People come to me because they feel I can help them. I provide my insights and tips based on my experience. They take it and leave!

A few days later, I get an email asking me the same question but in a different way! This tells me that the problem is not with the cheater but with the individual who keeps asking me the question.

When I point this out they get offended. I’m not stupid as I know it’s not their fault they are being cheated on. But they must understand how their reaction to it will determine if it gets worse.

Now imagine telling people exactly what they must know over and over and over and over again only to watch them do what they want! After a while you’ll get a little fed up right?

Well, that’s where I am at this point in my life regarding the questions, “Why Do Women Cheat” and “Why Do Men Cheat?”

I’ve decided to finally set the record straight and allow you, if you are a cheater, to tell the reasons why you cheated. This way the people who keep asking me for my response will see that I am telling them the truth!

The Cheating Husband, Cheating Wife…Reveal Why You Cheat site was created so men and women could tell their story.

I’ll compile those stories and show the world that what I have been saying are the real reasons why men and women cheat! Since people want to shove my reasons to the curb, let’s see if they will finally listen when those who are doing it confirm what I have been saying all along.

So, if you know of someone who is cheating you need to tell them about the Cheating Husband, Cheating Wife…Reveal Why You Cheat site was created just for them.

It’s a great outlet to share your experience when you cannot talk with anyone!

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How do you know when it’s the right time to move on with your life? Sometimes you don’t and that’s what drives you crazy.

How many times have you stayed in a relationship knowing you should have left but something kept you there? Then when it ended you kicked yourself in the butt for staying longer than you had too!

If you really want to know what’s going on just pause for a few minutes and ask yourself, “What am I afraid of? What is it that I fear will happen if I leave?”

You may think you’re staying for love but the truth is fear is controlling your life and you feel “comfortable” staying where you are instead of stepping out and walking away! Fear has a way of keeping you where you don’t want to stay!

Let me give you an example. A person who says, “I don’t like change” is an individual who is afraid. But afraid of what? The person is afraid of the “uknown.”

Now I’m not saying married people should get up and leave each other. What I’m saying is to be honest with you…be honest with your reasons for staying when you know you want to leave.

How can you possibly work on a relationship or marriage if you are not honest with you? Everything around you will crumble and fall apart.

Take a good, hard, long look at your life. Is it the life you desire? If not, there’s a good chance you have, and are still lying, to yourself!

Here’s an example of lies: “I know he doesn’t spend enough time with me but at least he takes care of me financially” or “I know he can’t keep a job but he is so sweet and helps me around the house sometimes.”

If you were honest with yourself you would say, “I need a man who wants to spend time with me. If he can’t do that then we will have problems” or “I need a man who can keep a job and be responsible as well as consistently help me around the house. If he can’t do that then we will have problems.”

But what you do is accept pretty much anyone who come your way hoping things will get better! You’ve been down that road before and know the end result!

Now we are back to the question, “When Is the right time to move forward with your life?” It’s simple…if you are married you must work through your issues unless the individual is abusing you mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually or has committed adultrey.

If you are in a relationship and not married you do not have to work anything out. I don’t care if you had a child by the man you can still leave. It won’t be easy but you will be happier in the long run.

Stay if you like but don’t complain to me or anyone else for your inability to take control of your life. If you want a different outcome then make a change. Otherwise, shut up and stop complaining because I, and those around you, don’t want to hear it! It all could have been avoided if you were honest with yourself!

Until next time!

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About three weeks ago, I was interviewed by a reporter who wanted to know how a woman could stop or avoid a cheating man.

So, I proceeded to give my insights. Trust me when I tell you I didn’t tell her too much that she didn’t already know. But how I presented that information probably allowed the reporter to see things slightly different. Sometimes the way I explain things doesn’t help either!

Can you remember a song that you didn’t like but after a few weeks or so it grows on you and it becomes your jam? Well, that’s how my practical insights are for many people. At first it’s written off as being too simple but when they have had time to really think about it tons of wisdom began to appear right before their eyes.

Well, in this article it was stated that I was a, “…self-proclaimed professional cheater who claims he was unfaithful to dozens of women for 15 years and never got caught.” Although it seems impossible it is true!

What caught me off guard was the fact that people who don’t know me would assume that is how I am today! Ouch! Now that is no fun! You can read the How To Beat A Cheat article right now.

I tell you one thing, it’s good to know that I am very happy with who I am today or that article would have affected me in a not-so-good way!

No one likes to admit they weren’t such a nice person in the past, a liar, a cheat and manipulated people for their gain! But that’s what I did for 15-years. I am not proud of it and it’s one of the reasons I changed nine years ago.

I’ve learned a lot over that last nine years, and during the fifteen years when I was a no good man. But now I’m sharing my insights with you!

Hey, at least something good is coming out of the bad stuff I did! I’m helping people to live a happy and joyous life just I do on a daily basis! It’s really easy once you get the hang of it!

Until next time!

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